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A bride and groom have caused a stir by planning to send “you are not invited cards” to those who didn’t make the cut for their small garden wedding due to budget constraints.

The couple’s decision was shared by a family member on Reddit’s “Wedding Shaming” forum, who expressed surprise at the move.

Additionally, the bride and groom are asking invited guests to help set up the reception, prompting criticism from online commenters who found the actions off-putting and questioned the etiquette of the “you are not invited cards.”

Some speculated that the cards could be a ploy to solicit gifts, leading to further backlash.