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The holidays coming up means lots of family infighting.  Here are the main topics that can start a fight, and why it might be best to avoid them.

A poll found 40% of families deal with “open disagreements” around the holidays.  And that’s without factoring in the election.

Politics is the #1 topic that can start a fight, but it didn’t win by much.  Here are the top three . . .

1.  Politics.  34% of people said it’s a frequent point of tension in their family.

2.  Family dynamics and past grievances, 32%.  So, ongoing stuff that’s been brewing, then bubbles over.

3.  A tie between relationships and finances, both 25%.

Arguing about those things is usually pointless.  But here’s another reason to avoid them.  There’s a one in three chance it becomes a WAR.

The poll found a third of holiday fights end up escalating into “lasting rifts” that can impact relationships for years.

https://trustandwill.com/learn/holidays-and-estate-planning-survey